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Susan Boyd blogs on USYouthSoccer.org every Monday.  A dedicated mother and wife, Susan offers a truly unique perspective into the world of a "Soccer Mom". 

 

Keeping it Positive

Susan Boyd

Today I heard the song "Charlie Brown" while eating lunch and one line struck me. After the chorus, a baritone voice intones, "Why is everybody always picking on me?" I know soccer players feel that way more times than they care to admit. They get told what to do, what they did wrong, what they could have done, why they can't live up to expectations, and when they should just get lost – often all in the same sentence. Sometimes the criticism comes in the form of well-intentioned enthusiastic involvement from fans and teammates and sometimes it's just mean spirited bullying. The results are confusion, self-doubt, and frustration.

I've watched pint-sized players spin their heads around like they were auditioning for "The Exorcist." The coach on the sidelines barks an order, grandpa on the opposite sideline offers his take on the situation, dad behind the net suggests an alternative theory, and Penny running towards the goal issues her own request. By the time little Jenny filters everything through her brain and tries to do what she feels is the right move, the moment has passed and a whole new retinue of commands have been issued. How can six-year-old Derrick possibly know what to do when it is raining instruction? He ends up taking two steps forward, two steps back, and never doing anything other than look panicked. While we all mean well with our "encouraging words," we actually end up contributing to a bunch of white noise. 

Once we recognize how we are creating confusion we can censor ourselves and focus on more generalized support such as "great job" and "way to go." But unfortunately some of the sideline comments dissolve into belittling.   This denigration could be classified as bullying because it elicits the same response in those player recipients. We are so used to shouting at the TV or anonymously in a baseball stadium of 45,000 that we forget the things we bellow on the sidelines can be heard by the players who aren't seasoned professionals hardened to comments and financially compensated for their participation. These are young kids with developing egos who want to please and worry they are failures if they can't. Parents tearing down a kid can cause great harm. One of Robbie's friends left a team because a teammate's father tore into him so often and so vehemently that he just couldn't play any longer in those circumstances. His coach tried to help, but he couldn't be on both sides of the field. Despite numerous requests to tone it down, this dad seemed unable to. The best control can come from other parents who talk to offenders and get them to see the error of their ways. We all have a responsibility to protect the kids on the field especially those who aren't yet in high school.

It's not just adults who have a problem. A player can become a bully if he or she doesn't feel a teammate is fulfilling his or her responsibilities on the field. Someone may end up picking on a player on the field and then continue the abuse off the field as well. Such behavior needs to be dealt with. Coaches should clearly establish the boundaries for team banter and they need to adamantly oppose any sort of bullying. As parents we need to listen to our children to hear any evidence of being bullied or being a bully and then we need to address it.  Young players get influenced by the frenzy to win that they experience watching professional teams in the company of their parents. They want to find a scapegoat if the team isn't doing well, so a player could be targeted. While support from the fans creates a positive atmosphere for a team, it's probably more important that the players have a positive attitude with one another. For young players teammates are also friends, so the ramifications of being bullied extend beyond practices and games.

When a game goes badly it's natural for frustrations bubble to the surface. None of us are perfect, but we can all aspire to be better. As players get older and games count more for things like the US Youth Soccer National Championship Series and high school championships and tournament trophies the positive comments get peppered with criticism and "suggestions." With older teams, the players are more serious about the sport and often have aspirations beyond high school, so they will face more and more of the fan reactions pro players get.   But we do need to be respectful of our youngest players and keep it positive. Rather than a melancholy refrain, we should be hearing, "I'm glad everybody's always supporting me."
 

Facilities for Development

Sam Snow

Here is another excerpt from the soon to be released Player Development Model from US Youth Soccer.
 
If You Build It They Will Come         
Throughout the United States a great deal of effort and time is being put into the education and development of coaches like you. You are diligently improving so that you can better develop players. The goal of any good coach is to develop players to their full potential and to help them rise in the game as far as their talents will allow. Raising the professional standards of your coaching is laudable. Yet it can be frustrating for you. You acquire knowledge and learn of proper training techniques, but are then frustrated by the lack of facilities to use these new abilities. Too many teams must train on the outfield of a baseball diamond or on one half of a soccer field or on any open patch of ground they can find. Sometimes there are no goals, corner flags or any proper training equipment. Usually if there are goals they are fixed permanently in the ground, so the turf in front of the goal is worn away. Consequently the players reach a certain level of play and then stagnate there. The best coaches in the world cannot fully develop players without the right training environment.
 
Across the nation outstanding soccer complexes are being built for matches; in most cases though the fields are used only on match day. So where do the players train? A simple observation of most club teams will show that the coaches and players spend one to three days per week training and one day per week in a match on the average. If the time spent training is triple that of playing, why isn't more emphasis put on the development of training grounds?
 
You have gained knowledge on how to train players at coaching courses, clinics, workshops, symposia, etc. You must then be given the tools to apply that knowledge. In your club the administrators and coaches can all work together to help develop the best facilities. The role of soccer administrators here is to raise the funds to provide the tools. Through this teamwork administrators and coaches jointly can produce quality players. When a new soccer complex is built consideration must be given to providing grounds for the players to develop into those skillful, intelligent players who are entertaining to watch on match day. Building fields for only matches doesn't meet the needs of the soccer community – land at the complex must be set aside on which to construct a training ground. Devote and develop field space just for training sessions; the space allocated depends upon the number of teams in the club. Certainly the larger the better, but any space set aside specifically for training is a step in the right direction.
 
Consider too the need for covered or indoor facilities during inclement weather. If you live in an area with ice and snow or high heat {90°+} for long periods then the training phase in your seasonal plan is interrupted. As a club construct a facility or make lease or rent arrangements with a suitable facility to be productive during these periods of the year. With access to an appropriate facility games and training can continue with Futsal, indoor soccer or with a field house you could play 3-a-side on up to 11-a-side soccer.
 
The construction of a soccer complex is typically done in phases over many years. The training ground must be a part of these phases of construction, particularly during its initial phase. While a fair amount of land will be needed to construct a high quality training ground the benefits will be long lasting. Those who are sincere about making decisions in soccer while placing the players first will start immediate construction of training grounds. Quality coaching and facilities will contribute positively to player development. Since player development is the backbone of the game the construction of training grounds is mandatory! National, regional and state associations along with local clubs must work together toward this goal. This aspect of soccer's growth can no longer be neglected!
US Youth Soccer Recommended Field Dimensions
Age Group
Length x Width
U6
25 x 20
U8
35 x 25
U10
55 x 40
U12
80 x 50
U14
100 x 65
U16
110 x 70
U18
115 x 70
U20
120 x 75
Table 5 Field Dimensions
 
The dimensions of the playing field have a real impact on the players' ability to perform in a skillful and intelligent way. Playing on an age appropriate size field allows for soccer to be played as opposed to kick ball which occurs on inappropriate sized fields. If clubs build full sized plots – 130 x 100 – then any size field or fields from the table above can be marked off.
 
Here are some of the "tools" needed at a first rate soccer training ground.
  • Sand field and/or pit
  • Kicking board or rebound goal and portable free kick wall
  • Flat faced goals and portable goals of various sizes {be sure they are properly anchored}
  • Cones and training bibs of various sizes, colors and shapes for the cones
  • Corner flags, coaching poles, yellow rope, pendulum pole and hurdles
  • Balls of various sizes and colors and medicine balls
  • Tennis and volleyball nets and standards
  • Video camera scaffolding
  • Grids (10 x 15) marked off on part of the training ground
  • Storage
 

You Can't Prepare for Everything

Susan Boyd

Right now I am on an extended road trip which is ranging farther than any soccer trip we have made. On the plus side we are seeing parts of the country we have previously only flown over. On the down side we are trapped in a car for long stretches of time traveling through long empty expanses of landscape. All too often an exit sign will have as an auxiliary notice "no services for 106 miles." During a particularly desolate part of our journey in Utah the check engine light came on. Those of you who have followed my blog for awhile know that I had a Toyota van which I drove for three and a half years with the check engine light blazing. So with the hubris of experience, we continued on our journey on roads that rose from elevations of 2000 feet to 9000 feet and back down along long twists of no service. We assumed it was a faulty gas cap since we had just gotten gas when the light came on. According to the service book we had either put in the wrong type of gas (we didn't), or driven through a deep mud puddle shorting the electrical (it was 111 degrees out so that wasn't likely), or had a leaky gas cap.

Upon arriving in Las Vegas we took the car to a dealership where the mechanic also said, "Oh, it's just your gas cap. Give it a few cycles of readings to reset." And he was ready to send us on our way, but I asked if they had time to run the electronic diagnostic. An hour later we discovered that the clutch had burned out and by some act of mercy had not failed in the high plains desert. So after a day of repairs, we were ready to set out again.

Technically this qualifies as a soccer trip because I am delivering Robbie to college to play. So a lot of the same standards I have set for making soccer trips held true.  Since many of you will be departing soon for those late summer/early fall tournaments I'll just highlight some of the things you'll want to be sure to have in your car. I put these in a box that I can easily take out of the car if I want to leave it in the garage and which I can quickly pack into the car when the trips demand. Be sure you have toilet paper and paper towels. Believe me you'll thank me for this suggestion when you are faced with a row of portable toilets devoid of paper. Pack some wet ones preferably with alcohol for disinfecting. A good first aid kit can't be neglected which includes scissors, tape, a roll of gauze, and a finger splint besides band-aids, cortisone cream, pain relievers, anti-bacterial, rubber gloves, and cotton swabs. Include extra shin guards, shorts, underwear, and socks. Add a small pump and extra needles. Bring black and red electrical tape to change or add numbers on the back of shirts. Drop one or two small umbrellas in the corners of the box. Complete your kit with sunscreen and bug spray. I also throw in some brimmed hats to help when the parents' sideline faces directly into the sun. For later in the season and for the spring, you'll want to include a blanket and some plastic bags to line the car floor and to collect muddy uniforms. Bring lots and lots of water. I'm trying to wean myself from bottled water for the sake of the environment, so you might want to fill a few metal water bottles at home or bring a gallon jug of water to fill bottles at the fields. 

As some of you also know, I am always on the hunt for the perfect soccer chair. My last purchase was a chair that included a roof. During this past spring I kept very dry even during some rough downpours. But last week while leafing through a catalog I came across a chair where the seat was heated! It was a folding aluminum chair with a small side table for setting drinks and cell phones and on the opposite arm hung a bag with a multitude of pockets for books, programs, and odds and ends. Alas it lacked a roof, but a golf umbrella would fix that. All I would have to do is charge the chair up the night before and it would keep the charge for four hours. It also came with a car charger so I could refresh it while driving. I may order it once I get back home. That is if I survive this trip. I still have to make it three quarters of the way back across America and there are plenty of moving parts on the car that can break down.

This is my way of saying that no matter how much you prepare, the unexpected shoots down your preparations. I had a mechanic go over the car two nights before we left, but there was no way he could check the clutch. No matter how big your soccer box grows it will never cover every problem. So you have to latch on to the positives and forgive yourself for not having infallible foresight. Despite the crises of this trip, we have also made some special memories. Coming out of the Rockies we descended through Glenwood Canyon, where the space to place the freeway was so narrow, they had to construct a viaduct with the westbound traffic on top where the views were. So we lucked out on some spectacular sight-seeing. We also stopped in Utah at an off the road viewpoint to discover an amazing hidden canyon and huge red ripples of stone rising thousands of feet from the valley below us. Robbie ventured down to the edge of the canyon while I resisted the urge to say "that's far enough." He discovered a huge Utah Banded Gecko (we looked it up that night on the internet) that had bright orange and pink speckles. Outside of Denver we stopped at a restaurant for lunch and as we were leaving the restaurant a voice shouts, "Hey, Robbie Boyd!" A classmate from his high school in Milwaukee Wisconsin was eating lunch there with his parents. Now that's as serendipitous as you get - and a good conversation generator for several miles down the road.
 

No. 6 Coaching Licenses

Sam Snow

We believe that competitive level coaches should hold a minimum of a "D" License.  Recreation level coaches should hold a minimum of an "E" certificate, if they are coaching teenage players and an age appropriate Youth Module certificate if they are coaching children.  Coaches working at the top level (premier/classic) should hold a "C" License or National Diploma.  Ideally they should hold a "B" License and/or an Advanced National Diploma.

The overall intent here is to create minimum license requirements in the U.S.A. and to establish levels of license with commensurate levels of play.  We recommend that this implementation be completed by December 31, 2010.

The rationale for these requirements follows:
- To provide continuing education on the game in the United States of America.
- To ensure that American coaches have an equal opportunity for education and standards in the game as our domestic and foreign counterparts.  Many countries now require mandatory licensing.
- To create the appropriate training environment to minimize the risk of injury.  To provide information on the prevention and care of injury.
- To reduce the risk claims against negligence and to be accountable for background screening.
- To equal other sports such as softball and ice hockey who have established mandatory coaching education requirement policies.  Ice hockey's rationale is very similar to that of
U. S. Soccer. 

"The coaching education program of USA Hockey is committed to developing coaches through a comprehensive education program at all levels.  Since quality coaching is the single most important element affecting the athletes and the sport itself, the experience athletes' gain through participation will be a direct result of the coach's qualifications, education and competencies.  Therefore, it is paramount that we prepare our coaches through a comprehensive curriculum which follows the different levels of skill progressions for the development of players."